Ten Ways to catch a cheater

  1. Changes in their affection. Your sex life is almost non-existent because of their other commitments. They don’t want to cuddle, watch a movie, hold hands or do many of the touchy things they used to.   Alternatively, it could go the other way where they want to try new things which they have may have tried and enjoyed with their “Lover” and now want to try with you.

  2. Changes to their physical appearance. A cheating partner usually starts buying new clothes, gets a new hair style or begins working out because they want to be attractive to their “Lover”.

  3. Cheating partners becomes more short-tempered because of the guilty feelings as a result of the infidelity. Things that usually did not bother them suddenly start bothering them.

  4. A cheating partner may smell of perfume, smoke or alcohol, especially if they haven’t had time to change them from meeting with their “Lover”.

  5. Changes in their routine. A cheating partner will use the excuse of working long hours, extra meetings and dinners or other unexplained functions so they will have time with their ““Lover””.

  6. Changes to their behavior. A cheating partner frequently becomes defensive when questioned about their whereabouts. They may turn it around to accuse you of being insecure, possessive or snoopy.

  7. Changes to their Mobile Phone. A cheating partner can not leave their telephone turned on when with you because their “Lover” may phone. They may leave the room to have a telephone conversation or say strange things after they pick up a message from their “Lover”. Watch for calls in the middle of the night. If you have access to his telephone bill, check it closely. Look for repeated unknown numbers, times and durations.

    8. Other mobile phone things to look for:

      a. Check the phones call records, most modern phones call history will always keep the last 20 calls made, received, missed.  If these lists are clear, then you have good reason to be suspicious as there is no need to delete these lists as the oldest call will always be deleted to allow the next one to be added to the list.

      b. Check for SMS messages, again if the Inbox is empty, then generally this should arouse suspicion.  Most people do not clean out their Inbox until the mobile phone instructs that it is FULL.  Check Sent and Deleted messages as well.

  8. Changes to their computer usage. A cheating man may utilize a computer to seek out partners or communicate with. If your man is on his computer for long periods of time at night and he closes the door so you won’t see him, he may be communicating or chatting with his love interest.

  9. Changes in spending habits. You can tell if your man is cheating if he is suddenly always broke. He’s broke because he is spending all of his money on the other woman. Watch as to whether he is paying with cash and making more frequent ATM withdrawals to cover his paper trail. Check any receipts, bill’s or stubs that you may have access to.

  10. Subtle changes to their vehicle. The passenger seat in the car has been moved or there is an unknown hair on the car seat. Perhaps the radio station is on an irregular station because that’s what the “Lover” likes.
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